PURPOSE, FAMILY, AND GRACE: MY GRANDPARENTS' LEGACY

Honoring National Grandparents Day with gratitude and reflection

National Grandparents Day is celebrated on the first Sunday after Labor Day. While it may not be a federally recognized holiday, it holds deep personal significance for me.

I’m the youngest of seventeen grandchildren on my father’s side, and the third of four on my mother’s. I was blessed to grow up surrounded by a large, loving extended family, and more profound, with all four of my grandparents present throughout my childhood and into my early 30s.

Their stories, strength, and values helped shape who I am today, and they continue to guide my life in powerful ways.

A Window into a World I Never Lived In

Each grandparent gave me a window into a different world. Through their resilience and lived experiences, I gained a deeper sense of identity, purpose, and connection to my family’s roots.

They weren’t just role models; they were the keepers of our family’s values. They believed in something bigger than themselves: family, loyalty, and responsibility. They set the tone early on; we take care of one another. And as they aged, it became clear to all of us: it was our turn to take care of them.

My Father’s Side: A Journey of Courage and Sacrifice

My father is the youngest of seven. He was born in America to parents who had fled Russia, journeyed through Europe, and made their way to the U.S. through Ellis Island.

My Zadie came to America alone, leaving behind his wife and five children. For five long years, he worked tirelessly until he saved enough to bring them all over. Once reunited, they had two more children, my uncle and my dad.

I often wonder:

What kind of man does that?

What kind of strength does it take to leave everything you love behind in the name of hope and survival?

Many men came to America and never looked back. But my Zadie did the unthinkable, he brought his entire family over and reunited them. He kept his promise, and in doing so, wrote the first chapter of our American story.

My Mother’s Side: Partnership, Progress, and Purpose

My mother is the older of two daughters, born to first-generation Americans. My grandma and grandpa were true partners, not only in life but also in business.

They built their own company together. My grandpa played saxophone in a band at night to bring in extra income, and my grandma managed the house, worked, and raised two children. She was what we now call a “working mom,” though no one used that term back then.

She was smart, opinionated, and understood the family finances. My grandpa was known for his kindness and steady presence. He also made a lifelong commitment to care for his older brother with special needs—a promise made to his mother, and one my grandma embraced as their shared responsibility.

Together, they worked six days a week and dedicated the seventh to family. That rhythm of responsibility, resilience, and rest stayed with me.

What gave them such strength?
What taught them to live with such unwavering intention?

The Career I Was Always Meant For

Looking back, I now realize that my career path was no coincidence.

It was no accident that I became a Certified Aging-in-Place Specialist through the NAHB.


It was no accident that I returned to school to become a Certified Geriatric Care Manager.


And it was certainly no accident that my very first care management client shared the same first name as my grandpa!

I didn’t just ‘end up’ in this field, I was called to it. My grandparents’ lives, values, and legacy led me here.

Four Ordinary People, Four Extraordinary Legacies

My grandparents weren’t perfect people, but they were magical in my life.

They taught me extraordinary lessons through ordinary, everyday moments.
They offered unconditional love, quiet guidance, and a steady sense of belonging.
They gave me insight into my own parents, my place in the world, and eventually, my life’s work.

I will forever be grateful.

Now I Ask You…

• Who are the mentors in your life?

• How have they shaped your values, your direction, or your work?

• And who do you quietly inspire—just by being yourself?

As we celebrate National Grandparents Day, I invite you to take a moment to reflect on the elders, mentors, and role models who shaped your story and to consider the legacy you’re creating in the lives of others.

Closing Thought:

Sometimes the greatest gifts aren’t things. Their stories, values, and examples passed down through generations. May we honor them by living with the same courage, compassion, and commitment.